This adds compile-time checking that the type of the value and the size of the labels and optional labels passed when recording a metric must match with the type and the size specified when the metric is registered.
The RegistrationBuilder API idea is credited to @ctiller.
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Closes#36449
COPYBARA_INTEGRATE_REVIEW=https://github.com/grpc/grpc/pull/36449 from yijiem:registration-builder-api a727810136
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