Eliminate cases where we get unused parameter errors only because of a debug assert, and because of short-circuit evaluation not add any overhead into release builds.
Closes#36373
COPYBARA_INTEGRATE_REVIEW=https://github.com/grpc/grpc/pull/36373 from ctiller:ugh123 073ea1236a
PiperOrigin-RevId: 625435672
* Clean up `grpc_byte_buffer_copy()`
* Clean up `grpc_byte_buffer_destroy()`
* Clean up `grpc_byte_buffer_length()`
* Clean up `grpc_byte_buffer_reader_init()`
* Clean up `grpc_byte_buffer_reader_destroy()`
* Clean up `grpc_byte_buffer_reader_next()`
* Clean up `grpc_byte_buffer_reader_peek()`
* Clean up `grpc_raw_byte_buffer_create()`
* Clean up `grpc_slice_new_with_user_data()`
* Clean up `grpc_slice_new_with_len()`
* Clean up `grpc_call_start_batch()`
* Clean up `grpc_call_cancel_with_status()`
* Clean up `grpc_call_failed_before_recv_message()`
* Clean up `grpc_call_ref()`
* Clean up `grpc_call_unref()`
* Clean up `grpc_call_error_to_string()`
* Fix typos
* Automated change: Fix sanity tests